Splendid Details: Why book an engagement session?

I get this question a lot during client consultations. People either love the idea of an engagement session, or they just don’t get it.

“We have a lot of pictures together, why would we need this?”

It’s a good question, and there are quite a few reasons why scheduling an engagement session with your photographer is a good idea.

First and foremost, I want to work with you before your wedding day. This session is a great excuse to get you in front of my camera for an extended period of time to see how you do. Most people are not used to having a big black camera pointed at themselves and it can be quite intimidating. Unless you are a model, you probably don’t know what to do in front of the camera or are super uncomfortable there. These are totally normal feelings. I don’t like being in front of the camera either… that’s why I love my job. It’s rare that I have to be in any pictures:)

But, like it or not, during your wedding, you are going to be the center of attention, and I will be following you around all day documenting the day for you… so it makes sense to do a dry run right? You do a dry run with your hair and makeup, your cake, your caterer and your dress right? Why not your photographer.

During your one-two hour photo session, you can see how I work. You can see how I gently instruct you in ways to stand together that will give me the picture that I am wanting. You can see if I make an ass out of myself to help you relax more. You can see what it is like to have a camera aimed at you for a extended period of time, and you get to see how fast the time really goes by and why you would want  2 hours of portraits at your wedding day (not just of you, but of you, your bridal party and your family).

Also, during that time, I get to see how you are in front of the camera. Are you shy and need a lot of direction or do you naturally enjoy the camera? Do you tend to blink a lot? Do you have issues looking at the lens?  By doing an engagement session, I see these things and can plan ahead for them. You don’t want me to realize that you are a “blinker” half way through your wedding day! That would suck. If I know you are a blinker ahead of time, I know to shoot a bit heavier than I usually would because I will have to edit out a lot of closed eyes photos. It’s for these types of reasons that I love getting to do engagement sessions.

I also love it because I get to know you better. We get to spend some time together and create a relationship. It’s not uncommon to go out for drinks or dinner after our session just so we can get to know each other better. There is nothing better for me or my clients than being friends by the time that your wedding rolls around. Wouldn’t you rather spend your entire wedding day with your partner and a friend instead of a stranger behind a camera? I would think so!

The next reason why doing an engagement session is a good idea, is because most photographers offer a custom guest book or frame for you to present at your wedding. The guest book is a book designed from the photos of your engagement session specifically for your guests to sign in and leave notes of love and congratulations. This is a more popular option than the boring book with lines in it and people just give you their John Hancock. This book becomes a treasured keepsake along with your wedding album!

custom engagement photo guest book

The third reason why to do an engagement session is….. it’s a lot of fun, and many photographers include it in their wedding packages for free!

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Sneak Peak | Married | Gasworks Park | Jen and Robbie

While downloading the pictures from Jen and Robbie’s wedding at Gasworks this weekend, this one image jumped out at me. I haven’t made the selections for all the blog images yet, but until I do, here you go!

couple kissing in the rain at gasworks park during their wedding

Jen and Robbie had an amazing ceremony at Gasworks in the rain…. Rain wasn’t what was expected, but they were amazing at adapting to the situation and making their day just that much more beautiful!

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Splendid Details: Thoughts on having a friend photograph your wedding.

The last couple of months, I have been amazed by how many DSLR (digital single lens reflex) cameras that I am seeing people have. Digital has finally gotten to the point where even DSLRs are affordable for the regular picture taker. And, because of digital and the instant gratification of being able to see if you like the photo you have taken, it has taken the mystery of a lot of these cameras.Nikon digital single lens reflex camera DSLR Because nicer cameras are now more available to people, there is the tempt for brides to look around, find a friend with a camera and decide to cut a major budget corner by having their friend take their wedding pictures.

I agree, it sounds like a tempting choice. They have a nice camera right? They spent like $900 on it, it better be nice! And I know them… .and they will shoot it for free. SCORE! Right?

Generally speaking, it doesn’t turn out as fabulously as you think it will. There is a reason why good wedding photographers cost what they do. Gear, talent and time they invest in your wedding, are all reasons.

But if the idea that your “Uncle Bob” or your friend with a nice camera seems like a good idea, I would read through these tips and comparisions between your friend and a hired professional before making that decision.

  • Your friend has a nice camera. It set them back a good $900.
  • A professional photographer has a nice camera, multiple expensive lenses, a back up camera, and lighting gear. It set them back a good $10,000.

I know the argument brewing right now. “It’s the photographer not the gear.” I agree to a point. You give a professional the simplest gear, and they will come back with a great shot most of the time. Your eye, composition and knowledge of exposure makes a big difference, but if you are getting married in a small darker room, your photographer should be able to change the setting on their camera w/o a blink and be able to capture a great shot. Most people can get a great shot in open shade on a beautiful sunny day. It’s the professionals who get a great shot in a crappy lighting situation on a moments notice.  And, not just a “ok” photo, but one you would want to put onto your wall and admire.

This is where that really expensive gear comes in hand.  “Fast” lenses are lenses that are usually $1000-$2000 (yes, that is just the lens, not the camera body or any other lenses) each and can shoot in super low light while being hand held and not getting a shaky picture. And without having to turn the flash on (especially on auto) and ruin the feeling of the moment or atmosphere!

  • Does your friend have a backup camera? Back up lens? Extra batteries? Enough memory?

professional wedding photographer's gear

  • You don’t want to miss half the photos from your wedding, because your friend forgot to charge his batteries the day before, or some thing like this happens.

And granted… this happened to a professional who wasn’t paying enough attention to his surroundings. Watch the video again though, and pay attention to the person who comes and grabs the camera (not the person) out of the water. That was the photographers assistant or second shooter. He was probably getting pictures from another angle so those pictures weren’t all lost. And that other photographer knew that the camera and the images inside were the important thing to get out of the water first. Not the photographer. He can dry himself!

  • Does your friend take good pictures of details, architecture, stylized portraits, and people being candid? It takes different skill sets to take those drastically different types of pictures. That is why many professional photographers choose not to photograph weddings. Weddings are hard work. HARD work! It takes a certain personality to handle the stress of a wedding, knowing there is no redo available… and to still be fun to be around all day even with that stress!
  • Is your friend willing to work nonstop for 7-10 hours, only stopping for a quick bite to eat when the bride and groom do? Or is your friend going to hang out at your wedding, thinking mostly of him having a good time, and capturing pictures every once in a while when he thinks of it?
  • Does your friend know his camera like the back of his hand, able to switch to a different mode if the light drastically changes right when you are walking back down the aisle? Or does he a) keep it on auto and hope the camera knows what just happened? or b) has to stop and ponder what change he is going to make while missing your walking down the aisle with your new husband?
  • Is you friend going to spend a couple DAYS editing your images, making sure take out any bad expressions, bad exposure,  and fixing mistakes? Is he going to spend the time to process every image and make sure that it is a cohesive group? Is he going to give you the best of the best that you will want to look over again and again? Or is he going to burn everything to disc without looking at anything, give the disc to you and expect you to know how to make the images look great?

example of processing a wedding image

For example, you can see the images above. This is the same file. This was a harder lighting situation as the bride and her dad were in sunshine a couple of steps before. My camera (set on manual) was set up for the sunshine exposure. I took this shot before having a moment to change exposure to the shady area they were now in. At first glance of the photo on the left, it isn’t very remarkable because it is a bit dark and a bit blue. But, it was totally a usable file as long as I spent a couple minutes on the computer. The picture on the right is the final picture. Now that is an image you would want on your wall. That is what spending the time processing ALL the images can do. It makes sure all the good photos are the best they can be. Now, if this was photographed on auto, the bride and her dad would most likely be so dark because of the bright sunlit building behind them, that no usable image would happen. You would have a couple silhouettes and that’s it.

  • Is your friend going to think about getting detail shots of all the things you spent the past year deciding on? Does he have a lens that can get those good detail shots?

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  • And most importantly, do you want to get your images back from your photographer and burst into tears because of all the moments they captured that you had forgotten about? Or burst into tears when your friend hands you a disc with ok pictures and obvious moments not captured?  Both scenarios will cause tears, it’s a choice between tears of happiness or tears of sadness.

I’m not trying to say your friend doesn’t take good pictures with his nice camera, but is this the day you want to risk to find out how good and dedicated he is?

A good wedding photographer does all those things and captures all the moments that make your day, so when you look back in 20 years, you feel like you are reliving the moment while letting you have a great day not having to think about it!

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1 year old | Keza

I can’t believe it’s been one year since I photographed little Keza at 5 days old!!!

But, time seems to get faster and faster each year, and when Katie called me about photographing Keza’s one year session, I was super excited to see how this little one grew!

Check out how adorable she was when she was a newborn here!

Katie really wanted to involve her mom in the shoot to do a “generations” type of theme. I loved the idea and was happy to invite grandma to come along!

Little Keza is an adorable girl with quite the personality already shining through. She was skeptical of me at first, like kids always are, but after a while her curiosity of me and my big black camera won out over her shyness. As you can see in the picture below, she wanted to touch my camera, and to get an inquisitive look like that I figured I could handle a little finger print on my lens. Thank goodness for macro lenses because she was CLOSE!

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This girl is adorable now, but will be a knockout  I am sure when she gets older. Check out the eyelashes any lady would be jealous of!child photography

To add to  her curiosity, she was all about the water once she realized how close to it we were. I LOVE the shot of her shocked face when she put her feet into the  water for the first time. It took Katie holding her back to not have her happily jump full on into the water!child photographychild photographychild photographychild photography

I love the generations idea Katie had of bringing her mom. Especially because when Katie is working, she hangs out with grandma a lot! Grandma is an important person and I am very happy we got to include her!

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Thanks again Katie, Keza and grandma! I can’t wait to see little Keza next time!

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Hitched | Pan Pacific Hotel, Seattle | Natalie and Steven

A couple of Sundays ago, I had the pleasure of photographing Natalie and Steven’s wedding at the Pan Pacific Hotel here in Seattle. You might remember them from their fun Pike Place engagement session from this spring.

Natalie and Steven are one of a couple of couples this year that found each other via the world wide web. They were both somewhat recent transplants to Seattle; Natalie from Florida and Steven all the way from Australia. They both found themselves looking for someone to share an evening with and maybe their lives if worked out. Needless to say, when both Chemistry.com and another dating site paired the two, they went for it and went on a date. Fast forward a couple years to July 25, 2010, we watched a radiant Natalie walk down the aisle to her smiling groom, Steven.

Their wedding was sprinkled with elegant details, kept simple and beautiful to match the “less is more” feel of the amazing Pan Pacific Hotel. Natalie chose a dark purple for her colors, and her florist, Aria Style matched the color with beautiful flowers and lighting through out the ceremony and reception to match. There was a candy table of ALL purple candy (which was devoured by guests by the end of the night!) thanks to Natalie’s cunning online abilities. Did you know you can order m&m’s just the color you want? LOVE IT!

They had officiant Annemarie Juhlian walk them through the ceremony with great details about them both as people as well as a couple!

They had a smaller affair as the mass of their guests came from out of state, some as far as Australia, Florida and Jersey. The great thing about having so many out of town guests is that many stayed late into the night dancing to music by the talented wedding DJ, Chris Graves of Your Song DJ.

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